Child & Adolescent Psychotherapy in Ashburton, Devon & Online

I am a Child and Adolescent Psychotherapist offering child psychotherapy, parent work, consultation and clinical supervision from my practice in Ashburton, Devon, and online.

I work with families from pregnancy and the early years through to young adulthood (up to 25).

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How child and adolescent psychotherapy can help

Children and young people do not always have the words to explain what is troubling them. They may be overwhelmed by anger, fear, shame, grief or despair. Parents may feel frightened, helpless, rejected or furious. Sometimes these feelings cannot easily be expressed in words, but emerge through changes in mood, turbulent relationships, difficulties with sleep or eating, or simply a sense that something is not going well.

My starting point is thinking together about what is happening and what kind of support might be most helpful. Depending on a child’s age, needs and circumstances, I may work individually with a child or young person, with their parents or carers, or with a parent and child together.

For children, play can be an important way of communicating feelings and experiences that are difficult to put into words. In child psychotherapy, I pay attention to these different forms of communication, alongside what a child is able to tell me verbally. Through the relationship that develops in psychotherapy, children and young people can gradually find ways to understand and manage feelings and experiences that have previously been overwhelming.

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Care-experienced and adopted children and families

I offer specialist support to children and young people who are adopted or care-experienced, and to their parents and carers.

Experiences of loss, separation, trauma and changes of caregiver can have a lasting impact on how children experience themselves, their relationships with others and the world around them. Sometimes behaviour that is difficult to understand or manage can begin to make more sense when we think about a child’s internal world and what they may be communicating.

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Pregnancy, babies and young children

I work with parents during pregnancy and throughout the early years, as well as with babies and young children together with their parents or carers.

Pregnancy, becoming a parent and caring for a young child can bring intense and sometimes unexpected feelings. You may want support with the behavioural challenges you are experiencing with your child, be noticing things that parenthood is stirring up in you, or simply want some help to understand your relationship with your child. We would work together to explore these experiences and develop a deeper understanding of your child and of yourself as a parent.

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Parent work

Parents and carers can come to see me without their child, either as a piece of therapeutic work in its own right or alongside their child’s psychotherapy.

You may be worried about your child’s emotional wellbeing or relationships with others, struggling to understand what is happening between you, or finding yourself caught in familiar ways of responding that you would like to change.

Our work is an invitation to think together about your child, their internal world and your relationship with them. Sometimes working primarily with a parent or carer can be the most helpful way of supporting a child.

About me

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I trained as a Child and Adolescent Psychotherapist at the Tavistock and Portman NHS Foundation Trust, completing a four-year clinical doctoral training in Child and Adolescent Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy. I am a full member of the Association of Child Psychotherapists (ACP).

Before moving into independent practice, I worked for 14 years within NHS Child and Adolescent Mental Health Services (CAMHS), working with children and families experiencing complex and enduring mental health difficulties.

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Supervision and consultation

I offer clinical supervision and consultation to psychotherapists and other professionals working therapeutically with children, young people and families.

Get in touch

If you would like to find out more, you are welcome to email me to discuss what you are looking for and whether I may be able to help.

Appointments are available in person in Ashburton, Devon, and online.

Email

Lena Toledo

Child & Adolescent Psychotherapist | Supervisor

M Psych Psych, MACP